As we prepare to enter the holiday season, I am reminding myself about the dangers and pitfalls we can find ourselves in during the holidays, especially when we are experiencing being “in the middle.” You know, the place between where you were and where you are headed? And, because the miles ahead look so much farther than where you came from, you’re tempted to turn back. Yes, that place! How you see the middle determines at least 3 things you will find yourself doing: 1.) K